3 Reasons Parents Avoid Connecting with their Kids
A large majority of parents, by the time their kids are teenagers, have fallen into this mentality of “avoidance is the best solution.” Some play dumb, some turn a blind eye, and some leave.
Recently, I had a parent come up to me after a weekend event I was leading and ask, “How do you feel about applying the ‘If it ain’t broke, then don’t fix it’ principle to parenting teenagers because it’s seems to be working just fine for us.” Quickly I asked the dad, “what are you using to measure it’s success or failure?” He answered by saying, “Well, I’m not sure what the kids think, but my wife and I feel like now that they’re teenagers, they’re old enough to ask for something if they need to and we owe them their privacy.” As soon as he finished that sentence, it was as if he not only realized the danger in his philosophy, but that he knew how I was going to res.
So, I said, “What do your son and daughter think about your parenting philosophy?” Though he grinned, he answered me with, “I’ll ask them and email you their response.”
It’s impossible to be a THRIVING parent if you’ve not learned the skill of taking action…but not just “taking action,” but TAKING A PLANNED & CALCULATED ACTION AT JUST THE RIGHT TIME! We’ll call these parents ACTION PACKED!
June 16, 2008 No Comments
GPS Tracker for Your Teenager And Your Sanity
Have you ever sat at home on a Friday night saying to yourself, “I wish there was an affordable tracking system I could put on my teenagers car?” Maybe you haven’t, but I guarantee you’ve wondered at times if your kids really going where they say they’re going.
Well, a new product called the SUPER TRACKSTICK PERSONAL GPS Stick may be your answer. And it doesn’t just work on your car. It’s the size of a about 2 AA batteries, which is also all it takes to power it up. It’s size means it can easily fit in your kids purse or pocket. And, the included magnetic mount makes the Super Trackstick easy to attach and remove from any metal surface. We’ve not had a chance to test the SUPER TRACKSTICK yet, but it’s got some pretty good review at it’s website.
April 8, 2008 1 Comment
Parents, Kids, and the Art of Communication: Part 1 of 7
I’m sure you heard those words as a kid and you’ve probably said them to your own children. Have you given up on becoming an expert in talking with your teenager? Well, there’s hope because you’re only a few days away from such expertise! It’s true - I guarantee it!
You’ll learn the skills that will make you an expert in the art of asking the right questions, anticipating moments of impact, listening with empathy, and winning your kids over to your way of thinking! The results can literally be overnight!
April 5, 2008 No Comments
Parents, Porn, Teenagers, and Homework - Coming to A Home Near You
Did you know there’s porn on the internet? Yes, I know you’re probably laughing. It is almost humorous just typing this question. But, from my experience with parents, I’m not sure how “off base” that question really is. Often after events and meetings with moms and dads, I find myself asking, “Do parents understand how much porn is available online and much of it, for FREE?” With some I even wonder, “Do this mom or dad know what porn is?” So, here’s a more serious question for those same parents. And I didn’t make it up!
Did you know that 9 in 10 kids, between the ages of 8 and 16, have viewed porn online–mostly accidentally while doing homework (UK News Telegraph, NOP Research Group, 2002). [Read more →]
March 26, 2008 No Comments
Google - Option for Parents of Teens
Have you considered Google as your one-stop option to help you manage the lives of your teenagers? If not, you should. It takes very little time and is 100% free. With a little creativity, a free Google account, and a computer or mobile phone, Google’s free products and services can help you protect your kids online, keep up with their schedules, help you stay in touch with their friends families, and even provide some assistance in case of an emergency.
If you’re not feeling the creative inspiration, don’t worry, because over the next 5 days, we’re going to show you 5 ways to creatively use Google as a productive and effective tool in taking care of your kids.
March 6, 2008 1 Comment